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Cellphone spy overview


Overview of cellphone spy programs


If you've never heard of cellphone spy programs, it is basically software that allows a parent to monitor their kid's cellphone calls or text messages. The same programs are being marketed to husbands and wives to check if their spouse is being unfaithful and they have cheating husbands or wives.. These spy programs can be the answer to your questions, "Do I have a cheating husband?", "Who does he always talk to on his cellphone?", "Is he cheating on me?" etc.

Let's start with the most basic type of program, since there are several brands, we'll just call it "cellphone spy 1". Now Cellphone spy 1's capabilities are limited, and usually cost less than $100. Cellphone spy 1 is the usual software program that allows you to read text messages from your cheating spouse's phone by taking his sim card, and attaching it to the device which will send it to your PC. This will not only let you read text messages in his/her inbox, but also text messages that he/she has already deleted. Yes, you read that right, text messages that they've DELETED already. Since most spouses that cheat delete their messages, this tool will show you EVERYTHING.

"Cellphone spy 2", this is just like the first type of software, but the difference is the cost and functions. It is similar because it will let you read the text messages, but it adds the ability to also listen in on the calls.

"Cellphone spy 3", these things are what you want if you're looking for total control over your cheating husband's cellphone. This software type of spy is usually (depends on the software you pick) undetectable. A cheating spouse , who is smart enough to know about cellphone spies, will NOT use their cellphone for talking with the person they are cheating on you with and when they do talk to this person, it will be in code. They could change the name of the girl to "Jack" or "John" to disguise it from you even if you have a cellphone spy to read his/her text messages.

What cellphone spy 3 does different, or more than the other 2, is that this type of cellphone spy will not only allow you to read text message, listen to voice calls, but also control your cheating spouse's cellphone. You can silently "call" their cellphone using this cellphone spy program, and listen to what is happening around your cheating spouse (as long as the cellphone is with them). If they turn off the cellphone, it will NOT actually be turned off, and you will still be able to listen in on whatever activities might be going on in the immediate area of the cellphone.

You can also get your cheating spouse's message/call archive, turn off his phone, have his phone call a specific number, play a ringtone, etc. You can literally control your cheating spouse's phone directly from you own phone. These types of cellphone spies are usually subscriptions based and cost $100+ PER month. I'd say you never really need all the features that a cell phone spy 3 type offers. It's just too much features. I would get the cheapest cellphone spy (type 1) that can read texts, which in my opinion would be more than suitable in helping you know whether or not your spouse is cheating, or having an emotional affair.

On the other hand, if you're here and want to know how you can STOP your cheating spouse from spying on your cellphone, simply remove the battery from the phone. Just turning it off will not work if you are being spied on with a program such as "Cellphone spy 3". As for the other cellphone spy programs (1 and 2), the cheap ones aren't much of a threat, just keep your cellphone with you all the time and don't let anyone touch it (so they can get the simcard) and they can't spy on you. Unless you fall asleep and they get to tamper with your phone, your private details are safe. Setting a password on your phone will also help prevent people from installing software to monitor your cellphone activities.

Cheating spouses who use different phones or hides cellphones you are unaware existed in the first place are difficult to catch. If you think your cheating husband or wife has a secret cellphone they use to keep things from you, try a different method to catch your cheating spouse. See the link on the sidebar for a guide to catch a cheating spouse.


Please read the comment section below before you ask your own question, the comment section in this post is very very helpful, and someone even posted their own guide below.


UPDATE
January 2011
Because of all the comments asking somewhat similar questions, I have made mobile / cell phone spy follow up post with an actual recommendation, not just a guide to help you search for a cellphone spy. I discuss a cellphone spy software that works with most of the popular smartphones (iPhone/blackberry/android/symbian/etc), has SMS, GPS, and call tracking, the ability to look at your spouse's phonebook, all done remotely.

In that article I recommend software that are a combination of cellphone spy 1 and 3. It's like cellphone spy 1 in the fact that it is cheap and allows you to read text messages (remotely) and it's like cellphone spy 3 because it has GPS Tracking, is undetectable and lets you view everything on the phone. I didn't bother looking for cellphone spy software that actually lets you "silent call" the phone to spy on the surrounding area, because I think that is way too overkill and do not intend on recommending something above $100. It's just too much, you don't need that IMO, if you do want one feel free to do your own research and share with us what you are using through the comment section below.


Disclaimer :
Please remember that monitoring a cellphone YOU DON'T OWN is illegal. So is attaching a GPS device on a car you don't own. Any kind of monitoring you do should be on a piece of equipment or property that YOU DO OWN. You are responsible for your own actions and the actions of the people you hire (private investigators).

165 comments:

Anonymous said...

My husband wants me to cheat on him with his friend. He wants to watch us. Don't know where this is coming from. We have been married five years and he wants me to do this?! Could he be trying to justify hes cheating by making me cheat on him or is he just sick.

Blogger said...

Hello, and I'm sorry to hear that. I have never experienced that nor have I known someone with that problem, but if your husband is making you do something you don't want to do(and you have already told him this) I think it's time you left him.

If you've confronted him already, tell him this has to stop or you'll have to split up. No one who was serious with you would do this.

What happened, and why is your husband like this? I can not tell, but it could be he is cheating on you, and this is one of his ways of "justifying" his actions by letting you do the same. If this is just something that turns him on, ask him to go with you to a marriage counselor. If he disagrees, I don't see any other options for you but to leave him.

Anonymous said...

How to spy on his cell if the cell does not use a sims card?

Blogger said...

What type of cell does he use then? Leave me some samples and I will try to help you with that.

Anonymous said...

How about a Verizon LG phone? I don't think it has a sims card, but I want to use that software spy program. Are there any other options? Can I buy a sims card & install it without him knowing?

Blogger said...

Hello again anonymous, if you are the same one that previously asked about cellphone spies for phones with no sims.

The answer would be installing software in the smart phones you would like to track/spy on. The softwares available are numerous, and they all act like the "cellphone spy 3" described above. The only downside to these softwares are they usually come with a subscription fee, which is usually about $10/month.

What is the subscription for? When you setup the program on your husband/wife's cellphone/smartphone, everything that happens (txt messaging/phone calls/pics/etc) on that phone gets sent to the server, and you are paying for that with the $10 per month. I think the $10/month subscription a very small fee for peace of mind.

Although alot more complicated, it is still possible to spy on a smartphone/windows OS phone. Those with sim card using phones are just much easier.

Hope that helped.

Anonymous said...

My bf has the mogul on the sprint network. is there a software out there u recommended for this type of phone? also, i dont have access to his phone so i cant download the software. Any software out there that can be downloaded remotely?

Anonymous said...

Hey
What about a blackberry with a dataplan. I am aware that blackberries do have sim cards but would like to know whats the best option for a phone like that. Importantly what are the chances a program like this will get detected especially when the owner of the phone is a rather smart techie, who's senses are heightened because of what he is trying to hide from me. The fear of discovery keeps him several steps ahead.

Blogger said...

It's the same for non-simcard phones like the blackberry (smart phones in general), cept that you may have to pay a subscription to the network the phone is in order to have GPS tracking.

If you don't want GPS tracking for cell phones, and would just like to read the conversations of your suspected cheating husband/wife then you should seek software keyloggers for cellphones, which are cheap and only need a one time fee, unlike those subscriptions.

The chances a keylogger will be detected is slim to none unless he catches you tinkering with his cellphone, or his cellphone suddenly breaks down and is sent to be repaired. Just don't give him any reason to believe he has spy programs on his phone, Don't let him see you installing, obviously.

I doubt he would suspect anyone of installing something on his phone, if he did then he would already know that you know, and he would act defensive all the time. If he acts defensive all the time, then I don't think you need a cellphone spy program to figure out that somethings not right.

Anonymous said...

Where do I get information on cellphone keyloggers - how to buy, how to install, how to acess information, etc. Also how can I get the s/w whivh helps me listen in to calls and sounds around the cellphone.

Anonymous said...

I found some cellphine spy and keylogger on the page here called "keyloggers". hope that help

Anonymous said...

Do you have to have the phone in your possession to put a program on it or can it be done over the internet? My husband is on the other side of the country so I have no access to his phone.

Anonymous said...

i suspect my husband cheating on me using his blackberry messanger, is there anyone can help me to track his record

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

I also have a problem with cheating husband (just caught with sext-messaging) on his blackberry...saw a few before he deleted all the history....
Have confronted him and he is ending relationship, but I am still reeling...and do not trust him. Can I put one of these keyloggers on his blackberry without him knowing? Also...is there any way, if you know, to get copies of texts from the phone company?

Blogger said...

It's natural for you not to trust him after finding out he is sext-ing, and yes you can install a keylogger or add GPS cellphone tracking on his blackberry without him knowing.

Whatever cellphone spy or keylogger you install is usually hidden, all you need to do is install the cellphone spy program while he is not around and you have access to your husband's cellphone.

Anonymous said...

thank you for this info. Can you direct me to the right one?

Blogger said...

There are several links on the site pointing to different cellphone spies, cellphone spy reviews, and other tools to catch your cheating spouse with.

I've included various methods/programs/devices to catch your cheating spouse because it would be very difficult to pin point which one would be the "right one" for you, as we all have different fones and computers.

Please take a look at the reviews with their current links to anti cheating devices.

Thanks, hope the posts here help you.

Anonymous said...

how to know if any kind of spay software is on my cell phone?

Anonymous said...

No sims card with the Verizon GzONE BOULDER phone. I want txt messages only..any ideas

Thanks,

Blogger said...

Like what I posted above, if your cheating wife or husband has a phone with no simcard, either install cellphone spy programs(if it's a smartphone) or opt for subscription based GPS tracking.

I'm sorry I haven't got a hold of a verizon gzone boulder phone yet, and I have no idea if it's a smartphone or not. If there is no simcard for you to use any of the simcard readers found here, or you cannot install spysoftware, your only choice would be gps tracking (which for cellphones is subscription based mostly).

Anonymous said...

hi im wondering if you can use this program on a boost prepaid cell phone too...??

Blogger said...

For prepaids, phones with sims, you can use a simcard reader. It can be bought as hardware or software. Works perfectly in checking out on your suspected cheating wife or husband.

Good luck

Anonymous said...

Does it work on palm sprint cell phone.

Blogger said...

Yeah, iphones and other smart phones do fine with any of the software spies to catch a cheating spouse.

Anonymous said...

I am looking for one that works with tmobile G1

shorty said...

ok im sorry for asking this but it says at the bottom to take off there battery i dont get what they mean? if someone can help me out i would appreciate it..sorry
im young 21 ive been with my gf and i had a friend for awhile i did cheat on my gf with her but it was a terrible mistake i would of taken it all back...i miss her alot but i stop talkin to my friend cause my gf found out....and now i feel like there dating behind my back...and i dont know if my gf is lyeing to me or what i need help i have a tmobile katalyst so if someone can help me out how to do it i would definetly appreciate it

Blogger said...

If your phone is being spied on by a cellphone spy like "Cellphone spy 3" from above, you will have to remove the battery to make sure it is completely turned off.

Anonymous said...

If I were to buy the cellphonespy3 download to check on my significant others text messages, would he be able to see it if he were to pick up my phone.

Blogger said...

Well, yes he would see it if he looks at your phone/computer you installed the cellphone spy on. Just don't let him know about the spy software and you're good. Most of these don't pop up when you do a spyware checkup(for PCs), if they do, it will be included in the respective manual.

Also depends on what kind of spy you need, if you just wanna read the texts, cellphone spies like type 2 and 1 will do. If your spouse doesn't know it's there, they won't find out. Be sure not to act nervous or like you're hiding something, might lead to him or her getting suspicious that you are on to them.

Good luck.

Anonymous said...

My wife is txting when she is at work or before she gets home how can see these txt without touching her phone because she delete it before she gets home I know because i see the phone records its just one number she is txting

Blogger said...

Deleted text messages can still be read by using a cellphone spy 1 type program. They tell you upfront if you can read deleted messages.

Anonymous said...

i am working on living my husband he is very abusing and does not allow me to leave the house with my child, the only way i know to communicate with my parents and friends that are supportive is via cellphone, i just bought a new blackberry and i saw him messing with it, he is a pc guru and i am afraid he might have installed a keylogger to know of my whereabouts all the time, how can i tell and turn it off any help will truely be appreciated. -lost and needing assistance-

Anonymous said...

Hi, I suspect my husband is cheating on me with a coworker. I founds some sexts a few months ago. He said he has stopped but he is never at home anymore. I want to know if a sim card reader works if his phone is locked, or if there is any other keylogger or tracker out there that can bypass this or find out the password for me.

Anonymous said...

inquires
Hi I want to know is there any spy software that I can use that does not require me to have access to my BF phone he use a Boost Mobile Motorola i856 and I have a Tmobile Dash. I would like to see whise he calling and vice versa, but will settle with receiving texet messages

Blogger said...

Sorry, I am unaware of any product that lets you listen in/read other's phones without prior access to it.

If there are programs like that, I bet you it would cost a whole lot more than these simple cheap cellphone spies.

Anonymous said...

I have searched EVERYWHERE, and EVERY LINK and I cannot find the link to the software for cellphone spy 3. I even did an Internet search and could only find cellphone spy 1. Can you PLEASE post another link or direct me to the link? I must be dense, sorry.

Anonymous said...

hi guys I need your opinion on this I am an Asian and married to a white porno addict male. He told me that it is normal to a guy to watch pornography. Is this true? He always does it every time I am at work. I found it out when I checked the history in our computer. He promised me 5 times that he will not do it again and I end up finding more pornography sites in our computer. I felt direspected and very hurt... and he always said to me it is quite normal to watch pornography. Help!!

Blogger said...

Hi, I don't think race has anything to do with a man's cravings for adult videos. And for most guys, porno is just another thing to watch.

Why exactly do you feel hurt? Tell him that. Good for you that you only have to deal with your husband watching porn, and not him cheating on you.

Totally different story if you are talking about him using online cam sites or chat sites.

Anonymous said...

my husband has been msging his ex as soon as he leaves for work and doesnt stop until around 1 or 2am which is approx 6 or 7 hours... he seems to think its innocent but he deletes all of the msgs from her and will not talk about it... how can i get his sms sent to my fone so i can see if its innocent or not?? i am pretty dumb wen it comes to this stuff so a step by step explaination would b wonderful

Blogger said...

If you just want to read text messages, deleted or not, you have to get something like "cellphone spy" 1.

It's pretty simple if all you want to do is read deleted messages. Just take his phone when he isn't there, and insert the simcard in to your cellphonespy and it will read the data in it.

If the phone is a smart phone, you can also use spyware and install it on his phone.

Anonymous said...

my husband is texting all these girls and saying i love u too them and messing around like this how can i get his password if only i had that i could get into his phone he has a iphone just like me we are on the same account is this possible to get a password??

Anonymous said...

Thanks for your immensely helpful effort for us .Theres another favour i would need
i have not been able to find a cell phone spy 3 either , simple mobile spy software which gets you the sms n call logs....can u send me the link if possible!And i tried the free version of mobispy but nothings happenin and i m feeling so frustrated, each day is difficult to pass, the website people are not my relatives so they offer thier help taking their own sweet time, please help me out dear

Blogger said...

I'm swamped with work but I'll see what I can do. What cellphone spy/cellphone are you looking for? It really depends on what phone you have to know what cellphone spies will work for it.

Most cell phone spy shops offer free trials or a money back guarantee if you don't like what you're paying for.

Anonymous said...

I just spied on my wife's cellphone. I dunno what to do, she's been having very graphic "sex texts" with a co-worker.

To those who are about to spy on their spouses, make sure you are well equipped mentally for what is to come.

I figured she would flirt, but nothing this scandalous.

Anonymous said...

i dowloaded a spyro to catch my cheatind husband on text and it wont work, what do i do

Anonymous said...

ok im trying to understand all this, on how to install cellphone spyware on my cellphone i suspect my boyfrend is still talking to other girls, i have cought him 3 times and dont want to go threw life this way i want to finally know once and for all what hes up to..how do i install espy to my samsung 240 i have the phone in hand ready.

Anonymous said...

I came across this cool app (MobileZenith TrackWary) for catching a cheating spouse.

Managed to catch my wife cheating using it. Now I am wonder if I should use it for my teenagers.

This app allows you even to remove it remotely from the Blackberry so that it destroys all traces of it ever being installed on the phone.

There are other apps for blackberry's like Flexispy and mobile spy. Tried them all but TRackWary is much better by far.

Looks like it is only available for BlackBerry's right now. Too bad.

This is from their site.

trackwary.com
Catch cheating husbands, or cheating husbands or cheating boyfriends/girlfriends, stop employee theft, protect your family and children, automatically backup data/emails, audio bug rooms etc.

Listen to actual phone calls. Use as a secret spy mobile GPS tracker. Secretly read Email, Call Logs, chat. Track location on map, Make secret spy calls with Call Intercept - Phone Tap (GSM Networks only)

Anonymous said...

I am too trying how to fugure out how this works. I bought the software, downloaded it....now what?? I have a motoraloa rival...he has the new droid. i want to read his texts. i will pay someone to help me figure this out.

Anonymous said...

MY BOYFRIEND HAS A MOTOROLA i90 THROUGH BOOST MOBILE. I KNOW HIS SIM # AND IMEI # DO I STILL HAVE TO INSTALL THE SOFTWARE ON HIS PHONE OR CAN I DO IT THROUGH THE COMPUTER?

Blogger said...

Yes you will need to install the cellphonespy software in his phone, then you can use your computer to monitor it.

Anonymous said...

SO if I'm moving out of state would the spyware still work if I was to get spyware 3? We are military but I want to move back home and finish school while he stays here on the ship? I need to know otherwise is there such a device that will allow me to do this from another state?

Blogger said...

For Cellphon spies, I have not heard of it yet. All I know for cellphone spies is that you need to at least be able to access it in order to retrieve data/install the program.

For a laptop however, assuming he doesn't clean/check for spyware, you could install a keylogger that would email you the keystrokes he makes. You run a greater risk of getting your spy tool caught if you can't monitor it though. He won't really know it's you that's spying, the spy device will just get caught.

Anonymous said...

I have pre-teens using blackberrys. I have read many articles that kids are visiting many porn sites today with their blackberrys and once the sites are deleted, there is no way to track it.
I need a software to see what web sites they are going to. Is there a software that will track the sites or software that shows screenshots on a blackberry curve phone?

Blogger said...

Screenshots I'm not sure, but tracking data, any keylogger described above would work. Since you just want data, get a cheap keylogger/cellphone spy that records keystrokes.

I have never seen one that takes screenshots, but if you know the web address they go to you can basically just check it out on your own.

Anonymous said...

My husband works 4 days a week till 2 am, he says I don't get hugs and kiss cause he work, he doesn't leave messages on my phone because he says he is not like that, we shouldn't be holding hands or wanting more love because we been married for 24 yrs. And after I question him about all the things he said, he say's when did he say that! I am drained and ready to leave but I don't know how!

Blogger said...

Why do you want to leave? Don't you want to attempt to fix your marriage first? 24 years is a long time, I don't know how long you've been having problems or fighting to fix your marriage, but I think you should try to work things out, even if it takes more than a year.

Once you've tried working things out, and you still want to leave, just tell him you've had enough. Tell him if both of you can't compromise, it's going to have to end.

If you really want it to end, just go ahead and tell him directly that you are unhappy, feel overlooked, and want to part ways. If that doesn't end your marriage, it'll make him change.

I don't mean to judge your marriage, but I really don't want to see a 24 year marriage end just like that. If he loves you, he'll change or find some way of compromising that will suit both of you.

Anonymous said...

Does anybody know a software for samsung finesse? ( is a metro pcs phone)

Anonymous said...

spouse has a blackberry that I can get physical access to but she locks it after each phone call, and I don't have the password. Can you provide a recommendation? Thanks for your help - not fun for any of us.

Anonymous said...

Just wondering if the phone is locked after each phone call if there's a way I can still install the product? Thanks in advance.

Blogger said...

You can install if you can use it normally. If it's locked, and you haven't installed the cellphone spy program, whichever you chose, then you can't use the spy program. If you installed it and it locks/unlocks after each phone call, you'll still be able to listen in.

All depends on what brand you have, it will probably be written down on your manual somewhere.

Blogger said...

Sorry for the late reply guys, really busy. For those of you wondering, there is no specific spy software for a specific model/type of phone. There are just different types of surveillance software that work for each brand (samsuong phone in your case).

So pick a cellphone spy software you want to use (type 1 2 or 3 as described above) then search for those cp spy softwares and see if your brand of phone is listed there. For old phones, not smart phones, your best choice would be a hand held keylogger/simcard reader, to extract the SMS data from phones. I'm afraid those are the only affordable ones you can get for older phones, I would not recommend buying a bug (like you see on movies). It would even be cheaper to just buy a new smart phone, give it to your spouse and buy the software for that. Cellphone bugs are expensive.

Denise said...

Hi, I caught my man checking out hooker ads on craigslist and he got really mad at me and screamed at me for spying on his surfing and insisted he did nothing wrong so I let it go. Then I found cell calls to said hookers. Again he screamed at me and said he was just "messing around" with the phone and never actually met any of them. Apparently he thinks it's perfectly ok to call/text strangers on the net and talk sex. I think he's lying his ass off but now that he knows I am on to him he has stopped calling them on his cell phone. I don't believe he has stopped his piggy behavior, just found another way to go about it. Any ideas ladies? His work calls are monitored by his employer as is his work computer so he can't be doing anything from work and I haven't found anything on the computer yet despite tearing into the files. How could he be contacting these women? He's quite smart so the usual methods aren't going to work.

Blogger said...

@denise

You can monitor whatever he is typing by buying a simple keylogger that you connect to the back of your computer.

You can check this post out to see how to catch your cheating husband using keyloggers

denise said...

Blogger what are the odds he really did just make phone calls? He has been calling HOs for as long as the cell records I could get go back. He's trying to make himself out to be the innocent victim of some paranoid woman rummaging through his sh*t. Am I the bad guy? Why would he call hooker ads over and over and not do anything? I don't think a keylogger will work, he's not doing anything nefarious on the home computer anymore since he realized I was on to him. I've searched for a secondary phone but haven't found one. I'm thinking maybe he's using a public computer which means I am probably never going to know the truth so I'm just twisting in the wind here unless he screws up and leaves some evidence lying around. This sucks!

Blogger said...

If he's doing it repeatedly, it will only take time before he acts on it and takes it further than phonecalls. If you feel he's really lying, and IS doing something, I would shell out the extra cash and get GPS on his car, or cellphone just to make sure.

Denise said...

You're right but the thing is blogger, he's like a lawyer and knows how to argue his way out of anything. So I could pay all this money to put a GPS tracker on his car that shows him somewhere he shouldn't be but it doesn't prove what he did so he will have some elaborate excuse. Short of a video or pic of him having actual sex with someone he will always be able to argue his way out of it and accuse me of being crazy and paranoid. I have the phone numbers of the hookers he called and I actually spoke to several of them and they were kinda nice about it but wouldn't flat out admit what if anything they did with him. One hooker told me his phone number was stored on her phone but when I asked if she slept with him she stopped responding. It's maddening. I suspect he has some kind of way of contacting them since he stopped using his cell phone, perhaps a calling card or secondary phone or maybe he is using an email account he created on a public computer? I made a huge mistake by confronting him with the cell records because now he knows I am on to him and has stopped using the cell. Just yesterday he disappeared for 8 and 1/2 hours on his day off and blew up at me when I asked where he was and what he did all day. I am certain he was up to no good but I have no proof of anything...

Blogger said...

Yes Denise, which is why in some posts I said confronting would be best if you already have enough proof. I think, sadly, you are right. Disappearing 8 and a half hours on his day off and you not knowing where, and HE got mad at you for asking is definitely a sign of cheating.

There are some really cheap GPS trackers you can attach to cars. But I think what you really want is a private detective to follow him and catch him on video for you. That is way too costly IMO. Maybe ask a friend to follow him? But the cheapest option other than getting a cell phone spy/keylogger would be attaching a GPS to his car, then asking him where he went. If it doesn't match, he's lying and you know it 100%.

Or you could keep asking him where and checking your GPS tracker and pretend you believe him until he thinks you dropped your suspicions, and then when he does it more regularly, you can follow him yourself and confront him where he can't lie his way out of it.

Or if you really don't care for him anymore, then just straight out leave him, saves you money and your time! Based on what you've said, I'm pretty sure he's cheating, and you better not have sex with him either. Who knows what kinda STDs those hookers have.

Denise said...

Ugh...Stds. Yes, the lovely crumbs of his infidelity. Just this evening I came out of the shower, found him on the computer and he immediately closed the window and deleted his cookies. Hmmm. Maybe I will do the keylogger after all. What kind works on a MAC? He's up to no good for sure because if he wasn't why would he care if I saw his porn cookies or looked at his cell phone? If I do either he goes all Mel Gibson on me.

Blogger said...

It's alot more expensive for macs/laptops because you'll need software to monitor internet activity. Don't get me wrong, I'm no tech savvy person, my husband is though. What I used was hardware keyloggers, meaning just plug at the back of your desktop computer to record the internet activity. Software requires a few minutes to install.

For a mac os, you can use this link. It's an amazon site, so you will need to be discreet, or maybe use a friend to ship it to her place instead of yours.

It has a lot of features, so you might also want to disable some of them. Unless you want your mac to take screenshots/snapshots besides recording his passwords/chat logs. I think the taking of screenshots/snapshots is a bit overboard, since I don't see the need for looking at his hookers or his porn. It'll save you space on your laptop if you disable the automatic taking of snapshots.

This is the only one I can find, there are not alot of mac softwares available to use to spy on your cheating spouse, but here are the requirements of the software incase you're planning to get it :

Mac OS X (10.2 10.3 or 10.4) or Mac OS 9.x
PowerPC G3 G4 or G5 processor running at 233 MHz or faster
16M of memory (32MB or higher for best performance)
Approximately 80MB of disk space for a typical day of recording Format
MAC 10.3.8 OR LATER

Take note of the EIGHTY MB of disk space it uses daily, and make sure your mac won't run out of space, or he might snoop around and see where all the space is going to.

And I'll say it again, don't use your home shipping address. I've known some people who accidentally tipped their spouses off because they saw the package. Just a warning.

Don't let him go all Mel Gibson on you, sue him when you have enough proof!!

Hope that helped, read the product reviews on the link before you buy!

Anonymous said...

my husband has a blackberry and he locked the phone because one day he saw me reading his messages. I want to install the cell phone spy 1, however when I research one, I got a ton..is there one that you recommend. The blackberry does have a simm card.
thanks.

Blogger said...

I've never used one on a blackberry, but they're all basically the same. If you one a the type of software/hardware like cellphone spy 1, just get the cheapest and read the features. It should mention about reading/viewing ALL data, including the deleted messages.

Anonymous said...

i will give u and imaginary question. suppose someone spy on you. he get . You get the spy too what will happend, the other person notice it or get a message #, text messages etc from phone and computer . my friend whants to get one and she is sure her husband has one...he will discover it.It is there any sugestion?.She is almost sure he is having an affair. Please need help asap. Thanks

Blogger said...

Depends on what type of cellphone spy/keylogger they use. But I doubt you'd catch each other, especially if it is with use of a simcard reader. I'm not sure her husband would put a keylogger/cellphone spy on his own phone, there would be no point.

Did I answer your question properly? I'm not sure what you're trying to ask really.

Anonymous said...

I KNOW my husband is cheating, I just want concrete proof. our phones are not smart phones. he has all his completely innocent facebook junk come to the phone as texts too, so i doubt a simcard reader would catch him, as they do write over the deleted files with new files, and he probably deletes two or three times a day. our phones are samsung highlights. i need to know what to use. please help!

Blogger said...

Hi Anon, a simcard reader WOULD help unless he deletes a couple of thousand messages a day. I doubt he fills the simcard memory so you'd still be able to see the deleted messages.

If you think that won't work, then spend 30-40 bucks on a keylogger, and monitor his chat/get his passwords.

Anonymous said...

i have a verizon palm pre my husband has a motorolla rival...can i use any of the spy prog's to see text messages ect

Blogger said...

Yeah, you can. You have a variety of spy software you can choose from.

Anonymous said...

Can u use a iPhone

Anonymous said...

Question: My husband has a blackberry torch. Is there a way I can read his texts msgs, see his emails, see incoming and outgoing calls, listen and record his calls without him knowing?

Blogger said...

Yes, as long as you have physical access to it and can install either a software keylogger, or physical keylogger such as discussed above.(the comments section is full of info as well)

Anonymous said...

I found out that my husband has a secret yahoo email a few days ago.
We have always been open with our passwords but he uses a different password for this account. I am very worried.
I installed a keylogger on his computer, I went through his computer with stellar password recovery, and used recuva to bring up deleted files.
The only thing I found was a possible download of some type of yahoo to a device.
There is no evidence of him going to yahoo.com on his pc (except that download) and he cannot log on through his work, so now I am thinking he has a secret phone that he can check email on.
Where else could he checking his email? We do not have any type of internet on our cells phones, so he would have to have a whole new cell phone account to do this without me knowing.
Do you have any tips on finding a secret phone?

Blogger said...

Other than physically looking for it, no I don't. I bet there's something on amazon that you could use like those things that sweep bugs(electronic device). I'm guessing that's a bit too much money and hassle.

Maybe he checks his other email using a friend's PC or maybe at an internet cafe?

Do you have any reason to suspect your spouse of cheating? He may just have an extra email for signing up to junk sites that usually spam you.

Anonymous said...

I'll check Amazon out. I thought about trying one of those network keyloggers but it looks complicated.
He has cheated in the past. He doesn't seem to have any of the behaviors, and I hope I am wrong for being suspicious, but he is a little older and smarter than he was the first time. He has always used the same password, so this is very unusual for him.
As far as I know my husband goes to work and comes home, he doesn't hang out with friends after work. He is a home body nowadays.
I hope it turns out to be nothing. But I am 100% sure that he is hiding something, just not sure hes cheating.

Blogger said...

Those bug sniffing things are EXPENSIVE. May I suggest some cheap GPS tracker that you could attach to his car? That way you'll know if he's lying to you if you ask him where he went.

Maybe it might just really be his spam mail, or maybe he's using it to browse porn sites?

What do you mean by network keyloggers? I'm not sure, I have no experience with that. All I know how to use is the software keyloggers for mac/laptops and the physical/hardware keylogger that you attach at the back of your computer.

Anonymous said...

Yes, the GPS tracker does look like a better option for now. Thanks for that suggestion. We have a family gps on our cell phones for our teens, it tracks all of our phones. But since we got it a few months ago, I noticed him forgetting to take his phone most days.

I found his secret email when I checked the sent messages in his regular email. He forwards funny emails to his work email to share with coworkers. Well in his sent folder I seen that he had a funny email forwarded to his secret email. It has his name in so I know it is his. That is why I think he is using this email to talk to someone. If it was for spam he wouldn't forward a email he would like to share.

I think the network keyloggers are called network sniffers. I downloaded one yesterday and sniffed our network. I could see live feed of all the websites that each computer was viewing.

The sniffer is a bit complicated, tutorials are helping. I am hoping that it will pick up on on devices other than computers like a phone, ipod, etc.

I am convinced he is using something other than his pc to check this email.
He knows that I installed a keylogger on his pc when he was cheating the first time. So if he is doing something, he will be sneakier this go-around.

I hope it turns out to be something like porn. Seeing his secret email brought up a lot of old feelings. I am so afraid of going through this again.

Thanks for this blog, I am still reading...great info.

Blogger said...

There are also tiny GPS devices you can attach to your cars/briefcases/bags, if that helps.

Please share your findings about network keyloggers and if you manage to get them to work for you.

Good luck, I hope it's just something stupid like porn.

Anonymous said...

The program I am using is called Cain and Abel.
It is a password recovery tool,a network sniffer. It does lots of other things. You can get it free here at their website
http://www.oxid.it/cain.html.

It seems difficult, but with tutorials I got it to work easily. I found some of the website tutorials difficult understand, so I found some on the web. Here is the one I used to sniff our network.http://www.d3scene.com/forum/internet-guides/24690-tut-cain-abel-sniffing-tutorial.html There are also lots of good ones on youtube that show you step by step.

This program finds passwords saved on the computer, it records phone calls (not sure how this works yet), but what was the most useful for me is the network sniffer. It picked all devices that connected to my internet, then shows all internet traffic from the devices.

So far I have been able to see what he was looking at on the xbox (he watches movies through netflix on this), all websites he visits on his pc, sometimes with user names and passwords, I even picked up on him using the kindle to look up porn photos... I was not aware that the kindle could be used in this way. Learn something new everyday! lol

You can also crack encrypted passwords with this program. I haven't tried this yet.

Anyways, hope this can be useful to someone.

Anonymous said...

Well I got impatient and just couldn't wait to get his password from the keylogger.
I clicked the lost password link for his email, answered the secret questions, and got in.
I feel sooooo bad, it is not my husband's account. It is my father in laws!! He has the same name as my husband. I did not know he had a email. The account was inactive. Gosh, I guess I am a little paranoid?

Blogger said...

There were no signs of cheating, so I guess you kinda were a bit paranoid. But there was history of cheating so I guess you can't be blamed for feeling that way.

At least you know he isn't lying/cheating on you. Bet it felt bittersweet finding out it was your father in law's email account.

...and never log in his account ever again.

Anonymous said...

I cant get to my wifes phone and what to see her text and here her phone calls.

Blogger said...

Sorry but you will need to have access to your spouse's cell phone in order to be able to actually listen in on calls or read text messages.

I haven't heard of a way to listen in on calls or read text messages on someone else's phone without having access to it.

Hardware Keylogger said...

There are lots of method to check and trace your husband calls the GPS system is best for monitoring husband activity all activity dialed and recieved calls are detected by this system.

Anonymous said...

My husband has LG Env VX9900 thru Verizon. Does this have a sims card? If not, how do I get deleted text/pics messages?

Blogger said...

Hi, please check this post. Mobile phone spies.

If your cellphone phone does not have a simcard, you can use one of those spy programs on your phone. You'll be able to read deleted texts with either cellphone spy1 and cell phonespy 2, but you can only view videos and pictures with cellphone spy 2. (which is more expesnive)

Vincent said...

i have tried trackwary and they have not got it to work yet. i staret with curve 8330 boot and the remote listen bug feture blacked the screen and the call into listen live to his calls never worked it showed me as incmoming call. they took weeks to answer my emails. i sent emials from 7 accounts and they way later responded and blamed the curve. so i went to tmobile which i had account with got the 8520 and it worked better it did send picture emails and fe more things. i did get text logs and call logs like the 8330 but still no call into listen. they said it was agin the curve. so i got the new curve 3g from them thigs got better but still no call into listen. they blammed tmobile finally told me to go to att. i emialed them from another emial and aske dthem if a bold tmbile 9700 like theysaid but iwth att wouild work they said yes call into listen will work. i am going to get the call into listen working today if it does. i dont have any faith in them and there tech support is the worst. i beeged them to help they blammed all my phones and now my provider. when i asked them as another person theyu said they have tons of tmobile customers and all fetures work fine on the bold 9700. now i have a curve 8330 8520 3g and now bold 9700 and still cant call into listen to work. i just need to see or hear live or recodered versions of both sides of his calls. do you recomend any one out there that you know that will work to eighter hear his callslive of a recodered version of both sides. i have all these blackbverrys paid cash for them all based on trackwarys tech suppoit folks and not one of them works to get his calls live or recoded. i just need to here them. the rest is all extra my main need is to hear his calls again live or recorded is fine. please if oyu or anyone can help me with one that works please. they wone refund my money as they say its not them thatits my phones then its my settings and wont give me detailed help with the settings or now they blame my provider. they have no live chat or phone number just emial and it takes weks. please i need help...anyu help please and thanks....

Blogger said...

I don't have any recommendations for listening on phone calls, sorry. What I've recommended on the other post is only to view SMS messages, and view images and videos on your phone. Listening in on phone calls usually cost hundreds of dollars.

Thank you for sharing your review on trackwary though, seems like they have horrible customer support.

Blogger said...

I just checked their site, they only offer a ten day guarantee, and they don't use a popular payment gateway either. Maybe you should have requested a refund earlier than ten days.

Vincent said...

i did i have been asking for help and eveytime they resond if they rspond they never give you staright answer . they say your settings are wrong. thats it. i email them back what settins i did what teh book said over and over they say its your settings again, thats it. i ask themto help they dont respond. i tell them i got the phone they sid again they sayits the provider. i copy and paste the email from the where they said tmobile works but they then say well not always depends on alot but wont tell me what. they have the worst support around. i think they have false advertising. some fetures work most dont and with each phone i tried things worked better and worse but never all better with newer units. they just cant do it right. i have been emiling them for over a week now from differant emials and they still havent got back to me. i have boiught over 900 bucks inphones to make it work based on what they tell me to do andwith each one theres always another repsonce why its not working and now they jyst dont respond anymore.

Blogger said...

Well now people who read this can get an honest review before they buy a cellphone spy from trackwary, thanks Vincent.

Anonymous said...

Same boat as yo vincent. STAY AWAY from trackwary. The ten day guarantee should clue you in on the quality of their product and support. Why is it only guaranteed for 10 days? Because it takes them almost a week to get back toyou with generic copy pasted replies. They don't care about you and I have searched high and low just to find guides for THEIR own software. Reviews on their software are misleading, and the forum posts about their "quality support" I suspect are all fake. Like vincent i tried silent calling a cellphone to listen in on a call, the phone froze. Good thing I tested it out before using it on my daughter's phone or I would have been busted.

After that I just decided to use the cellphone spy recommended here. Can't listen in on calls but at least the text and gps tracking is reliable. Oh and trackwary never responded to my eails about refunds until AFTER the ten days. Bad company folks. stay away

Anonymous said...

Why is there a subscription for the program?

Edna BB said...
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Anonymous said...

Hey I have tried all the iphone locator apps too - and my husband even has tracked me via his phone -which gave me clues he did not want to be found after 6 months he was never trying to really find me lol- so anyway I went out and got a gps real time tracker- ladies stop wasting time with the cells phones we need hard proof to save our assets and kids in court so gps delivers to get our video photos - so far after only five day he lies to me daily where he eats- side of town etc-- either he is a pathologic liar or a cheater will know in days week to come!! gps is the only way ladies!!

Anonymous said...

you are insane -and you sound like a guy too-cause any woman with a uterus would tell him to get the hell out!! your sister too for Gods sake stop being a coward and get some balls and kick ass!!

Anonymous said...

Edna you are an idiot ofcourse that is cheating.

Anonymous said...

Does anyone know if there is a way to view INSTANT messages sent on a Blackberry? Is there a way to view frequency of instant messages on a cell phone bill? Thank you in advance.

Blogger said...

You can view instant messages, text message, sms messages, whatever you want to call them with any type of cellphone spy listed above.

I'm not sure if there is a way to check the frequency of text messages on your phone bill, most likely no since SMS messages are so cheap/free for most phone plans. You should contact your provider, or email their online support. Or if you're planning to install a cellphone spy on one of the phones you own, they can easily tell you the frequency of text messages you get in a month, and more.

Blogger said...

I deleted those other comments.

No flaming will be tolerated here. Please respect those who have shared their experiences.

If you have something negative to say just click the back button, you won't get published here.

Anonymous said...

Hi there, I was wondering if there is a type of spy software that can be downloaded to an iPhone via the computer?? Or is there a way to download it onto his phone without actually taking out the sim card? He knows I like to use his phone for internet purposes so it would be easy to do it that way. He doesn't worry about handing me his phone because he knows he has already deleted everything from me. Even after I have asked him not to, just to prove his claims of doing nothing wrong. My husband works away and I only visit on the weekends. It came clear to me this past weekend that he is truly hiding text messages and phone conversations from me with his ex. I can go to our AT&T account and see how many times a day they talk or text, but when I ask him about it I get accused of being controlling and he never answers the question. He always flips it back on me then gets very defensive over her.

I just want to know what is going on. Please help!

Blogger said...

Hi, those are signs of cheating alright. And yes, you can, I've detailed the information on this Cellphone spy page.

Take advantage of the free 60 days you get, then cancel the subscription if you don't find it helpful. So for 60 days, you got a powerful software that you can install on his phone that will let you read all text messages remotely from your computer at home during your weekdays away from him. You don't even need to touch his phone, he just needs to have an internet connection for the software to work.

When you read the page I linked, I suggest picking the first cellphone spy, it's cheaper and does exactly what you want. Reads text message, deleted or not.

Anonymous said...

Do I need access to his phone for the initial download, and will it work if the phone is jail broken or not??

Thank you by the way for your quick response. It is extremly appreciated.

Blogger said...

Yup, you do need access to his phone to install it. And yes, for iPhones, you need to jailbreak it (they have a guide in the member's area on how to jailbreak an iPhone).

It's no problem, you caught me online, I always try to reply if I'm online and not busy.

Anonymous said...

Pls assist me to catch a cheating spouse cellphone.

what is ur email?

Anonymous said...

My husband have iphone 4 with passworded how do I catch him?

Blogger said...

You need to actually be able to use a mobile phone before you can install any type of spy software.

If you can't access his mobile phone to install the cell tracking software, you can't monitor it's activity.

Blogger said...

Just a reminder, for those of you who download "free cell phone trackers" or any sort of free spyware, be warned that you might be tricked by some malicious people into downloading a virus or trojan.

If you can't afford to buy one, I suggest not using freeware and just try out other methods. Or use them until the free 60 day trials expire.

Spending $30-50 dollars is better than getting your personal info stolen and sold on the web.

Anonymous said...

What about an Espy?

Blogger said...

Poster @10:44
I don't know what espy is, sorry.

@future commenters.

Please read the reminder near the top of every page here. Do your own research on state laws, and do NOT post someone's private information because they cheated on you. I've had to disapprove several comments. This is not a hate site, ladies and gentlemen, lets keep it clean.

Anonymous said...

How to spy on boyfriend's cell phone without touch he's phone?

Anonymous said...

HOW CAN I SPY ON MY HUSBANDS CELL PHONE FOR FREE?

Anonymous said...

how to make a spy camera out of a cell phone? can cell phone spy 3 be used to take videso or photo image using cam?

Blogger said...

@8:58pm
You can't spy on a phone without first "touching" it. You'll need to install the software first before you can monitor any phone. Only the government can spy on phones without touching it.

@9:57pm
I will never recommend any type of freeware. I don't want to be responsible for freeware turning out to be a virus or spamware and ruin your cell phones. If you would like a free cell phone spy you will have to just "buy" the cell phone spies and return it before the trial ends.

That's not a good thing to do, because most websites will permanently ban your email/IP/credit card if you continuously buy and request a refund. Instead of looking for a free cell phone spy (which could be malware), why don't you opt for the cell phone spy I linked that is a one time payment fee that works on multiple cell phones?

@8:50am
I stopped looking for cell phone spy 3 types, it's too costly and I can't afford to pay $50 PER month. There's also no reason to make a spy camera out of a cell phone.

Unless you just want to view pictures and videos, then cell phone spy 2 linked in the other article will do just that. Show you the pictures and videos on a cell phone remotely via their website.

Anonymous said...

why pay someone to spy on husbands phone when we have spyware

i almost considered higher a private eye

Anonymous said...

is there any other way to read my boyfriend text messages without going through his phone? i can not get to it because we only meet once a week, and when we do he always leaves his phone so i can't install any type of software

Anonymous said...

My husband has a secret cell phone. I know it. Jus can't prove it. How should I find it so I can install a cell phone spy?

Anonymous said...

What cell phone spy can work in singapore?

Blogger said...

Poster @12:42
Because some people are actually rich enough to be able to afford the astronomical costs of hiring a private investigator.

@9:19
Nope, I'm afraid you have no choice but to have it with you and install it yourself. Please research on your local state laws before doing any type of monitoring, and read the disclaimers on the websites you buy spy tools from. Whatever you do keep away from supposedly "free" keyloggers, or phone loggers. Might turn into some type of virus.

@6:03am
That's a tough one cause it's really difficult to find such a small thing. Maybe you should try baiting your spouse? Check the site navigation page for that article. A lot of people have discovered hidden cell phone numbers and email addresses that way. It's free and effective too.

@2:43
Check the linked article in the post above, both the cell phone spies I tried should work in singapore, india, malaysia, the UK, basically anywhere in the world that has an internet connection the phone you want to monitor can access. I have actually received an email from someone from singapore regarding the images he caught.

If anyone would like to share anything they've uncovered using a mobile spy, feel free to contact me via email if you would like someone to talk/vent to.

Anonymous said...

I suspect my husband has an extra simcard he's hiding from me. One night I checked his phone and there was no simcard in it, I asked him about it and he said he "forgot to put it back in". I asked why he ever had to take it out in the 1st place and he just shrugged his shoulders and let it slide. Is it impossible to know what he is doing? We share phones and he has no problem letting me use his. but it's a compleetely new simcard

Anonymous said...

is putting spyware on my husband phone through computer possible without being able to turn on the phone because it is password guarded?

Anonymous said...

How do you spy on an old non-smartphone cell phone?

Blogger said...

Poster@5:23
You will need to buy a sim card reader.

You won't get any cell phone GPS and other features available from the software based spies though. But on the upside, sim car readers are as cheap as $10.

Anonymous said...

Maybe you guys are using an older versions of Trackwary cause the latest version works insanely good on all phones I've used it on including many bb curves.

Also you have to make sure your phone has OS 4.5 or above.

I have used their remote listener and it has work flawlessly hundreds of times. Amazing, in fact, no ringing or notification on the phone whatsoever no mater what alert setting I use. Vibe, Loud, etc.

Anonymous said...

From my understanding, trackwary is tied to the phone not the sim card. So swapping sims will not disable it from working.

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to say I had a really good experience with trackwary. I first got the software for an iphone only to find it was for blackberry only and they gave me a refund no questions asked. Then about a month later my hubby got a blackberry so I purchased it again and installed & in no time I was able to hear all his calls and see everything. Turns out i was paranoid and he wasnt up to anything but at least now I know. If anyone needs to track a bb i would go trackwary all the way

Blogger said...

I don't usually check IPs of people that leave comments, but if they make multiple comments reviewing a certain program/gadget (trackwary) I feel I have to point out duplicate posters.

The three posts above mine, 4:52AM, 5:18AM, 7:46AM, all have the same IP address coming from Canada.

Anonymous said...

Well you got 2 out of 3 right.

I posted 4:52AM, 5:18AM.

The later 5:18AM cause I missed something from previous post.

have no idea who posted 7:46AM

Only sharing my experience with the app. Difficult to do without mentioning the name.

Blogger said...

Statcounter must be lying about the ip address then, and it might just be pure coincidence that the last three consecutive posts were about trackwary, something that was spammed in the comments a year ago. :)

Anonymous said...

How does one spy on an android smartphone? Specifically I am looking to find IM and google voice calls.

Blogger said...

The linked article above, mobile spies, talk about that. You can't spy on live phone calls, just the logs your phone has.

Check the other article, and scroll all the way down to the list of phones that work with both softwares.

Anonymous said...

I have the iPhone 4g. How do I determine if my phone has any spyware on it? In addition, I own a MAC, is there an area to specifically look for to see if anything has been downloaded? I believe spying is an invasion of privacy and my husband knows that. We have had this discussion before. There aren't many things in my house that are off limits to him and the kids. Hell, I can't even bathe without someone standing there. Regardless,he read my emails a few times and went on my FB to read stuff there too. I guess he is suspicious from time to time. I have nothing to hide so he has all of my passwords. However, if I am being spied on, I want to know it. I may have private conversations with girlfriends about their husbands, etc that aren't anyone else's business. It is needed I suppose in some relationships but my phone and my purse are MINE and no one has the right to look at it! Thanks :)

Blogger said...

"Hell, I can't even bathe without someone standing there."

LOL me too.

With the cell phone spies discussed above, it's difficult to know for sure if they are installed on your iPhone or not, because they are undetectable. What you can do if you suspect your phone is being spied on, is reformat the phone.

A lot of people sell anti cell phone spies, but those don't really work (I've tried it with cell phone spy 1). They could be working, but they get patched over by the cell phone spy developers right away.

For a Mac laptop, you can try Webroot Spy Sweeper AntiSpyware

Anonymous said...

How do I spy on a blackberry torch, and a mac book pro

Anonymous said...

Hello there, I'm living in UK but my wife in Sri lanka. I have fair reason to belive my wife is cheating me. I want to confirm this by spying on her mobile. Can I do this while im in Uk ? I have no accsess to her current mobile but I can send her new mobile phone as a gift that allready installed with spy software. is this good iadea or not ? once i have installed this software from elswhere can it be activated from there(srilanka) with her current network SIM ? Please provide me with some answers, thanks

Anonymous said...

i havent got this yet lol but how would i be able to put it on his phone without him thinking what are you putting onto my phone ???

CC said...

Is it possible to install on a blackberry that has restrictions on installations of new programs? (it's a work phone and typically won't allow you to download programs). thanks

Anonymous said...

Hi there. So I cannot find the answer to this question ANYWHERE. My friend believes his wife is cheating on him. We have looked through all phone bills and text phone numbers and tracked them all. We also have complete access to her facebook. Both say she is NEVER on her phone, but we both watch her on her phone 24/7. I think she is texting on a chat messenger (ie., aol or yahoo, etc) is there a way to find out if she is? HELP!

Blogger said...

Poster@9:22am

To find out if someone is on your computer texing with yahoo/web text/aol/etc, you can install software or hardware keyloggers. Hardware based keyloggers record all keystrokes. Software based keyloggers do the same as the hardware, but is more sophisticated. They log the websites, take screenshots, log chat (Yahoo, aol, etc).

Also, maybe you need to test whatever cell phone spy you currently have and make sure it's 100% working before you try keyloggers.

Anonymous said...

My husband has a htc sensation he has it lock with a pin is their a way i can unlock his phone i want to get intohis facebook acconut please help

Anonymous said...

How far back can one get texts?

Anonymous said...

How far back can you get texts from

Blogger said...

Poster@10:00

It depends on what type of cell phone spy you get. The cellphone spies on the recommended page stores all data your cell phone sends/receives for two weeks. All data (gps locations, text messages, call logs, websites visited, etc) are all downloadable to your computer. So you can technically store everything as long as you have the space for it.

Blogger said...

@Lauren

You said :
"I have a LG phone through sprint and he has a galaxy s phone through t mobile and i want to install a FREE app that will let me look at all his messages and calls is there an app for me please email me at deletedemail. i do not have access to an internet all the time but i can check it on my phone thank you"

I didn't post your comment because you included your email. As far as your question, I can't recommend any cellphone spies or keystroke loggers that are FREE because I don't want you to get infected by any viruses. There are literally thousands of software out there claiming to be free cell phone spies, but are actually just malware designed to spy on YOU or infect your computer.

You could just google "free cellphone spies", use at your own risk. (I wouldn't)

Anonymous said...

Hi my husband brought a new ph , he is on a plan , he has gone away to work , my question is can he use either ph with another sim so his calls will not be on his ph bill, as new sim will be different number, oh and what can i do.

Blogger said...

That depends on the phone, some phones are locked to just one sim by the service provider, but it is entirely possible for anyone to use a different sim, a prepaid most likely, if they want their calls to not reflect in the monthly bill.

Cell phone spies are usually not tied to the simcard, they are software that you install on the phone itself. So it wouldn't matter if he switches sim cards to avoid detection, you'll still get phone number logs, text logs etc.

Anonymous said...

Hi thank you for answering me, his old ph is a Nokia 2330,his new one is a HTC Desire HD. On the paper work with HTC ph it says weblock status is off, and it is a 24 mth plan. Also what else can i do to find out whats going on where he is now other than trying the ph? i feel blind and dumb.

Blogger said...

You could try attaching a GPS tracker to your car, you can search the archive or type it on the search bar up top for related articles.

That should help you figure out their daily routines and you can "bait" them by asking about their day, and comparing it to your GPS data. Works well when you want to start a confrontation, better than blind accusations.

Be warned that in some countries, or states in america, it is illegal to attach a monitoring device, and like I've posted on the above disclaimer, you should do your own research about your local laws so you don't get in to any trouble.

When in doubt, contact a local private investigator.

We'll be out for the holidays and be back at january 3, I wish you luck.

Anonymous said...

Hi! My husband has password locked his blackberry phone. I see from reading previous posts that unless I can access his phone I can't install tracking software. If I buy a sim card reader...can I use that to see his texts? I don't want to buy one and have it still be useless due to password protection on his phone. I'm thinking of putting a key logger on his laptop too but it's a work computer so I'm afraid the antivirus will block it. Please help!

Blogger said...

Yes, all you need is access to a sim card to be able to read the contents. The really cheap ones ($20 or less) do only that, read text sms, but you'll need access to it. Physical access I mean, no need for the password.

Anonymous said...

For spouses with password proected blackberry's here's a hint - buy your spouse a new phone, before you give him his new "gift", download a spy app like "Trackwary" onto it and voila! Everyone's happy....

Anonymous said...

I know my husand is with someone else. I want to read the emails before i see the attorny. I have NO way of getting his phone. is spy 3 the only option.

Blogger said...

You can also try option one, if they send/write through phone.

Anonymous said...

Hi,
My husband is using iphone4S (jailbreaked). Most of the time he would use whatsapp and viber. Recently, i found out that he texted a lot with his female colleague. So now, he would delete most of his messages (whatsapp and sms) before coming home. Is there any software that would let me retrieve all deleted IMs? Can i use simcard reader to read the messages that he has deleted?

Blogger said...

The keylogger/cellphone spy linked above, if you click the link to the review Kris did, will store whatever texts, or call details, from your phone.

So everything you do- after installation- will be recorded in an online server that the cell spy will provide for you after you become a member.

Both the one time payment one, and subscription based do this. Only difference is the sub based software will also take video.

-Mike

Anonymous said...

Hi,my partner wont leave his cell phone lying around, its with him 24 seven, even when hes asleep its with him. how and what can i use to see if hes cheating on me.he goes outside to txt or answer phone calls hes not silly as he knows i will look to find something on him. oh its a smartphone.

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