My goal in starting this site was to provide a resource for people who "just got hit" with infidelity. That's how it feels when you first realize that you got cheated on by a loved one, like you got hit by a car. Naturally you will want to find ways on how to cope with the enormous emotional stress and depression you are feeling. In the old days we were limited to just talking to a friend. But now thanks to the internet, and google, we can search for other people's experiences and ways that they coped with their trial with infidelity.
If you wish to contact me, you can simply leave a comment and attach your email, any post with an attached email/real name/anything with personal info will not be posted. You could also email catch a cheater admin at gmail dot com, format that into a proper email ofcourse (typed it like that to avoid spam bots).
If you would like to share your story and have it posted here (without your personal details of course), feel free to post it here : Cheating spouse stories
Kris and Mike
January 2011 Update : If you would like to give advice, share your experiences, or just support other people who have gone through infidelity hell, you can join the forum we made just for this site's readers at
April 2011 Update : That forum was taken over by spam. We started a new surviving infidelity forum, on a non-phpbb forum site. That last one was too overwhelming to moderate, this time we have 3 other people helping us moderate. If you would like to participate, please see the link. We will also need some volunteer moderators once the site gets bigger.